this is what i want...
"..who can talk politics with prime ministers, culture with artists, emotions with women, and football with the lads down at the pub..He's global, socially aware, confident, and compassionate, appreciates the finer things in life, and is strongly bonded with and loyal to a cadre of male friends. A born charmer who is not afraid to cry..confident, masculine, stylish, and committed to uncompromising quality in all areas of life..without giving in to the stereotypes that give guys a bad name like disrespect toward women, emotional emptiness, complete ignorance of anything cultural outside of sports, beer, burgers, and athletic shoes.."